Daily Dating Tips

He’s Lying Sis” – Red Flags vs. Root Causes

What “He’s Lying Sis” Gets Absolutely Right The phrase “He’s lying, sis” became a kind of shorthand: a reminder that you don’t have to justify clearly dishonest behaviour. It empowers women to: Trust their gut when words and actions don’t match. Walk away from inconsistent, manipulative, or exploitative men. Stop trying to therapize someone who’s

Black Love in America Navigating U.S. Dating Values and Clarity

Dating in the United States can feel like a grand adventure. It is a huge country with millions of singles, including a large and diverse Black community. From the bustling streets of New York to the laid back vibes of Atlanta or Los Angeles, the experiences can vary widely. Yet, one thing remains true across

Black Dating in the UK: Finding Love in a Diverse Culture

The United Kingdom is a melting pot of cultures, and the Black dating scene here is rich and diverse. Afro Caribbean Brits mingle with Africans, White Europeans, Asians, and more, which means there are plenty of opportunities to meet people from different backgrounds. But sometimes, Black singles in the UK face unique challenges: we are

Healing and Growth: Overcoming Past Hurts to Find Love Again

Almost everyone carries a few scars from past relationships. It is part of life. But those emotional wounds do not have to prevent you from finding love again. Healing from past hurts is a crucial step toward being truly ready for a new, healthy relationship. In Afro Caribbean communities, we sometimes feel the pressure to

From Single to Ready Your Personal Development Journey

Every love story starts with a single person who decided to grow and open their heart. Being single is not a setback. It is an opportunity to work on yourself and embark on a journey of personal development that will prepare you for a great relationship. Think of it as Phase One of your love

How Black Professionals Found Love

Success in love often comes with twists and turns. Let dive into two mini success stories of Black professionals who found lasting love through different avenues, and unpack the lessons hidden in their journeys. You might just find a nugget of wisdom for your own path. Story 1: From App Frustration to Algorithmic Fate Galen

The Dynamic Duo for Serious Relationships

Serious relationships do not just happen by luck. They are built on a solid foundation. Two of the most important foundation blocks are clarity and core values. We have talked separately about each, but together they become a powerhouse for relationship success. For Black singles who are seeking serious relationships, the kind that led to

Swipe Right Smart Tips for Black Professionals on Dating Apps

It is Monday evening, and Erica, a 32 year old marketing manager, is doing her regular review of new matches on her dating apps. As a Black professional woman, she is looking for ways to streamline the process and attract quality connections. Sound familiar? Navigating dating apps smartly can make a world of difference in

Dating App or Matchmaker? A Checklist for Black Professionals

If you are a Black professional looking for love, you have likely contemplated the options: dive into dating apps with a strategic plan or enlist a matchmaker for a more curated experience. Each route has its merits, and the best choice depends on your personality, goals, and circumstances. To make that decision clearer, here is

Making the First Move Empowering Black Women in Online Dating

Monique scrolls through her dating app matches. She is noticed something: if she does not initiate the conversation, many matches languish in limbo. Yet, she is hesitant, years of being told that women should not chase or that Black women are “too aggressive” have made her second-guess hitting send on that first message. It is