“Christian Dating Advice” – Faith Is Not a Strategy
What Christian Dating Advice Gets Right Christian dating content – including that promoted or discussed by influencers like Stephan and others – often emphasises: Purity, integrity, and honour. Seeking God’s will in your relationships. Valuing marriage and covenant. For many Black believers, this has been life‑giving. It counters hookup culture, celebrates commitment, and reminds us
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From Vague Tips to Strategic Partner Choice
“dating advice for women” into Google and you’ll drown in clichés: “Be confident.” “Don’t text first.” “Play hard to get.” “Let him chase you.” Some advice, like improving communication or self‑worth, is helpful. But much of it is vague, contradictory, and rooted in fear of being “too much.” Our work starts from a different question:
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“Why Men Lie in Relationships” – Symptom vs. System
What This Question Highlights The phrase “why men lie in relationships” is one of the most‑searched topics in relationship content. Influencers, including Christian and mainstream coaches, have done whole videos on: Fear of conflict. Desire to avoid hurting your feelings. Wanting to keep options open while enjoying your benefits. These explanations can be helpful. They
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What They Get Right About Healing & Hope in Our Community
Where “Black Love Coach” Voices Get It Right If you scroll Instagram or TikTok, you’ll find a whole ecosystem of Black love coaches speaking directly to our community’s pain: low marriage rates, situationships, generational trauma, fear of commitment, and the longing to be truly seen. At their best, these coaches do three powerful things: Normalize
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Why Men Lie in Relationships” – Symptom vs. System
What This Question Highlights The phrase “why men lie in relationships” is one of the most‑searched topics in relationship content. Influencers, including Christian and mainstream coaches, have done whole videos on: Fear of conflict. Desire to avoid hurting your feelings. Wanting to keep options open while enjoying your benefits. These explanations can be helpful. They
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Sex‑Positive Relationship Advice for Millennials” – Freedom + Structure
dating has been shaped by two forces: purity culture on one side and hyper‑sexualised media on the other. Sex‑positive educators tried to correct the damage: “Your body is yours.” “Consent matters.” “Pleasure is not a sin.” We support that shift. Especially for Black millennials, it was revolutionary. But we’ve now hit a new problem: Freedom
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Shan Boodram – Modern Intimacy Meets Strategic Commitment
Where Shan Boodram Adds Real Value Shan Boodram (Shan Boody) has become a leading voice around sex, intimacy, and modern dating. She: Talks frankly about pleasure, consent, and communication. Encourages people to understand their own bodies and boundaries. Challenges shame around sex, especially for women. For many, especially millennials and Gen Z, Shan’s work has
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Christian Relationship Coach” – Coaching Beyond Morality Talks
What Christian Relationship Coaches contribute Many Christian relationship coaches speak to: Godly character. Healthy conflict resolution. Sexual boundaries and honour. For believers, this is valuable. It acknowledges that your relationship isn’t just emotional or physical – it’s spiritual. We affirm that. We also believe in covenant, honour, and integrity. Where We Extend the Conversation However,
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Modern Dating Topics” – Great Conversation, Weak Strategy
Podcasts, YouTube channels and TikToks are full of modern dating topics: “ghosting”, “situationships”, “roster culture”, “friends with benefits”, “poly dating”, “soft launching your partner”. It’s interesting, often funny, sometimes painfully real. Voices like Shan Boodram excel at unpacking these trends in a way that’s honest and non‑judgmental. That’s helpful. But if you’re a Black professional
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Stephan Labossiere Books” – From Insight to Implementation
What Stephan’s Books Get Right Books like “He’s Lying, Sis” and other Stephan Labossiere titles resonate because they: Name behaviours (“breadcrumbing”, emotional unavailability) women have felt but couldn’t explain. Validate that your discomfort is real, not “overreacting.” Encourage women to detach from men who are clearly not serious. For many Black women, these books are
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