“Blind Dates Aren’t the Problem—Blind Processes Are”
probably had someone say: “I know a guy for you. Just go on one blind date!” And hey—sometimes that works. We agree, getting out there matters. Trusted people can see connections you don’t. But here’s the risk, especially if you’re a Black professional with a lot to lose: If their only criteria is “You’re both
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“Birmingham Deserves High-End Matchmaking Too”
you’re in Brum, you hear it all the time: “Serious dating means London.” Meanwhile you’re here—Black, professional, rooted in Birmingham—Googling “high-end matchmaker Birmingham” and wondering if anyone sees you. We do. A high-end matchmaker Birmingham should: Understand Caribbean Sundays and corporate Mondays, Respect your time, Help you protect your destiny. But no matter how high‑end
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“The Best Dating Apps Won’t Save You”
probably googled “best dating apps” more than once. New list. New reviews. New promises. You download, swipe, chat… and somehow end up in the same place: tired, confused, still single. Here’s the truth: the best dating apps can give you more options, better features, maybe safer verification. But they cannot: Heal your patterns, Raise your
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“London Dating Coach vs. Life Partner Strategy”
probably seen the ads: “Work with a London dating coach – finally crack the city’s dating scene.” We agree that: You can’t just do home–work–home and expect to meet anyone. Basic social skills – presence, listening, flirting – matter. Walking into every date saying “London men/women are trash” will ruin your energy. A good London
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Dating Coach Manchester—Great. But What About Your Future?
probably seen profiles for a dating coach Manchester – someone who gets the local scene, the banter, the spots that aren’t on tourist maps. We’re all for that. We agree: Local knowledge helps. Down‑to‑earth coaching can feel safer. It’s nice not to feel London‑centric. But no matter where you live, one thing doesn’t change: The
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“James Preece Is Great—But Here’s What Black Professionals Still Need”
probably seen James Preece, the dating coach—books, podcasts, tips on how to meet more people and actually enjoy it. We agree with a lot of what he teaches: Don’t hide at home Work on your confidence Make a good first impression If you’re stuck, that’s a helpful push. But if you’re a Black professional—especially in
Read More“Blind Dates Aren’t the Problem—Blind Processes Are”
probably had someone say: “I know a guy for you. Just go on one blind date!” And hey—sometimes that works. We agree, getting out there matters. Trusted people can see connections you don’t. But here’s the risk, especially if you’re a Black professional with a lot to lose: If their only criteria is “You’re both
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“Dating Red Flags” – From Lists to Life Design
red flags” content is everywhere: love bombing, inconsistency, future‑faking, lack of empathy, no accountability. Influencers, including Shan Boody and many therapists, have given us helpful language for patterns that used to be invisible. But here’s the issue: knowing red flags doesn’t automatically mean you stop choosing them. What Red Flag Lists Get Right They make
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“Sex‑Positive Relationship Advice for Millennials”
dating has been shaped by two forces: purity culture on one side and hyper‑sexualised media on the other. Sex‑positive educators tried to correct the damage: “Your body is yours.” “Consent matters.” “Pleasure is not a sin.” We support that shift. Especially for Black millennials, it was revolutionary. But we’ve now hit a new problem: Freedom
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Shan Boodram – Modern Intimacy Meets Strategic Commitment
Where Shan Boodram Adds Real Value Shan Boodram (Shan Boody) has become a leading voice around sex, intimacy, and modern dating. She: Talks frankly about pleasure, consent, and communication. Encourages people to understand their own bodies and boundaries. Challenges shame around sex, especially for women. For many, especially millennials and Gen Z, Shan’s work has
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